27 May 2010 4 Comments

How to create empathy as a writer

Malcolm Muggeridge (an old English literateur) once said that George Orwell “was no good as a novelist, because he didn’t have the interest in character.” Well, I didn’t need to tell you who George Orwell was, so you may doubt the judgment of the largely forgotten Muggeridge. But I think he was very close to an important factor for the novelist.

Here’s why: Character creates empathy in a novel. It puts the reader in a relationship with the work. Muggeridge’s point was that politics were more interesting to Orwell than the people on whom he hung them. In “1984” we feel for Winston Smith because we imagine what it’d be like to be him – but we don’t really care that much for him as a character. In other words, if Orwell hadn’t had such a fabulous idea behind that novel, it would’ve failed because Winston was too much of an everyman.

Nonetheless, so much contemporary fiction fails the character test. Read the short stories in The New Yorker – which are fairly representative of today’s “literary” fiction – and you’ll generally see an authorial voice greatly distanced from the emotions of the characters. You’re not in a relationship with the characters, and you wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with the smart-ass authorial voice.

The same is true on the other side of the Atlantic. Ian McEwan’s distance and restraint makes me feel…distant and restrained. Which isn’t why I read a novel.

Instead of putting you in a relationship with the characters, writers like McEwan effectively put you across the dinner-party table from them. And they do it in the voice of an uptight, superior bore. How would you like to be stuck at a dinner party long enough to hear an entire novel read by such a voice? …Yeah, I didn’t think so.

So now we’re agreed (write a comment at the end of this post if we’re not agreed, and I’ll write back in a superior smart-ass voice, just to show you that I’m right) that empathy is what counts. Without it, your characters will be one-dimensional, no matter how good a stylist you are. But what’s the best way to learn about it?

Some people are born with the ability to empathize. Others develop it. To a great extent I had to develop it. It’s a harder quality to build than you might think.

So if you’re not born with it, how do you get it?

Answer: go and live somewhere you don’t belong.

When you’re supposed to share the culture and attitudes of the people around you, you’re also expected to empathize without thinking about it.

You’re Welsh, I’m Welsh, thus without thinking about it we share perspectives and background which we don’t need to discuss. If you do discuss it, people will find you odd or boring. Certainly they won’t be able to explain themselves, because they too will feel like they’re talking about their culture in terms that’re too basic. Many of the questions you ought to ask will seem so obvious you won’t even think to address them.

As an outsider, you aren’t limited in that way. In fact, you’ll be forced to discuss and examine aspects of the culture around you which don’t make sense. The locals will explain themselves to you in a way that may begin at basic facts but will soon progress into how they FEEL about their culture and the people around them. Then you’ll be inside their heads. You’ll be able to empathize and build characters in your fiction.

For me, the place has been Jerusalem. In the last 15 years, I’ve lived here not as an Israeli or a Palestinian but as an observer. In Jerusalem, were you to look at the behavior of the locals, they’d drive you crazy, unless you were able to observe them with a deep feeling for their emotions and experiences. That’s the empathy I mean, and it’s been one of the most important factors in my Palestinian crime novels.

4 Responses to “How to create empathy as a writer”

  1. Nicolas Corderman 29 April 2011 at 12:14 am #

    Hi. Nice, interesting post, and a little as they are. I learned something totally new today!

  2. Matt Beynon Rees 29 April 2011 at 12:47 am #

    Thanks, Nicolas. Glad you enjoyed.

  3. TJ 25 June 2012 at 11:56 pm #

    Hey great post…funny that you mention living in another place as a way to ‘learn’ empathy better…I was looking for ways to imbue a screenplay Im working on with more empathic situation around the main character….and Im in central Russia…the story is about an American heading deep into Russia…its exactly what I’m doing! Looks like I stumbled upon your blog to see that Im not the only one who finds living in another world a great inspiration to write…now I don’t feel so alone and lost….well…ok not alone but still a bit lost and trying to write my way out of it!

    Thanks for that post! :)


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